I guess I'm overdue to get a jerk to deal with....

[Allen]

Thanks all, for the advice and attitude refreshment.

Aside from changing my ways about giving a refund before I get a part back, probably the best one is to simply "not sweat the small stuff" at the moment.

Although it pisses me off that someone would be that way, $50 isn't going to keep my kids from eating. I get just irritated when I come across people that act like a jerk and don't do what most common folks would simply see as the right thing to do. I try to treat everyone the same way I expect to be treated.

Right now, the guy still has both the money and the part, and can't seem to make a decision on sending it back.