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the wife is in charge of my stuff,I told here to have the stuff appraised and also contact a couple close friends to check for fair market value if she needed to sell anything.

now if we both get it at the same time, thats a different story, the kids are sharp enough to either keep the stuff or get rid of it,

Bill in this day and age I bet your kids or anyone for that matter could figure out online pretty quick what your stuff is worth within a few bucks one way or the other.

for what its worth there are a few good self help books on how to set up a will and have it be legal and binding,we went that route and had it notarized and locked up. took a few days of talking about what we wanted to happen and a hour to write it up and go get it notarized.


honestly it takes very little time to jot down your wishes and have it notarized and put away, some legal mumbo jumbo from the book helps they say but not necessary.

I witnessed a horrible mess as a kid when Grandpa passed with no will, greed soon takes over no matter how great the poeple are, really sad to watch.