[tom406]

This thread is, so far, respectful to everyone and I appreciate hearing from members of this evolving group of thoughtful folks I’ve found community in for the last two decades. With that said, before it evolves into a roo-rah session that polarizes I should to give voice to those of us who are really disappointed and struggling with the ramifications of this election. I have a whole tier of friends (real friends, not just internet buddies) who I feel connected to very much on the basis of their character, and yet somehow we have this wide, cavernous disconnect on how we interpret and weigh the character of the past and future President. That dissonance was, and is, really challenging for me to reconcile. Anyway, I’m not posting here to argue. I strongly believe maintaining real friendships is far more important for all of us than the lonely unloading of our frustrations into the internet. I hope you all are able to navigate your friendships with grace and understanding. I’m trying my best, and will be doing so by getting back to cars (Thanks Lynn).